new idea - write a script which collects systeminformation via 2 ways from the server. first with systeminfo wmi and second with cmd command "systeminfo >file.txt".
the systeminfowmi-file contains the installdate in unique pattern (eg: 20121114094908.000000+060). the cmd-command's file contains the culture-related install date: (e.g.: 14.11.2012, 09:49:08)
with this information i wrote a algorithm which search the parts of the date and time given from the wmifile, in the cmd-commands's file. with this i know the order of year/month/day etc. without knowing which language/date settings are used in this server.(of course you be able to re-conclude this, but i dont care about this).
The collecting script (sysinfo wmi and the sysinfo cmd) runs daily. After that runs the date-identification. And as result of this, there will be created a unique date-converting-key for each server. This information were loaded into a database. allover, you will get in future via a stored procedure all server names with the respective date-converting-key - then you will be able to convert each date exactly.
and again thanks to user2199816 - his solution work well too.