Thank you very much for the info. it turned out we were using a widget tool that I didn't realize was hiding / making more levels called Multiselect. if anyone gets here and has this same issue and same widget... here was the answer:
$("#SundayOpen").multiselect("widget").find("input[value='4/17/2013 12:00:00 AM']").each(function () {
this.click();
});