The documenation reference that you list describes the parameters for Atomic Updates in Solr 4, which is currently not supported in SolrNet - see issue 199 for more details.
Until this support has been added to SolrNet, your only option for updating documents in the index is to resend the entire document (object in C#) with the required updated/deleted feilds set appropriately. Internally Solr will re-add the document to the index with the updated fields.
Also, when you are adding/updating documents in the index, these changes will not be visible to queries against the index until a commit has been issued. I would recommend using the CommitWithin
option of AddParameters to allow Solr to handle this internally, this is described in detail in the SolrWiki - CommitWithin.