To answer the question, here's the proper ssh_cmd
: ssh -t kitty@133.33.22.1 "sudo nohup bash -c \"kill -9 \\\`ps -ef | grep 'udp_receiver' | grep -v 'grep' | awk '{print \\\$2}'\\\` > /nohup.out 2>&1 &\""
Basically, you need to escape double quotes, backticks and backslashes in a command each time you embed this command in another one. I did not use single quotes except at the lower level because you cannot use escaped single quotes inside single quotes.
You do need to escape the $
too when it is just a character inside a string quoted with double quotes, even if the string does also contain single quotes.