You say:
I would like this feature to be done with php and probably not with javascript.
Unfortunately, if you want "real-time" then you're gonna need JavaScript. You'll need it to make AJAX calls to your PHP code to check for validation.
So either A) you don't validate in "real-time" at all, or B) You use JavaScript in one shape or another.
Let's say you opt for B), to use JavaScript, and presuming ALL you need to do is check for an empty string or whitespace, then you can do all of this client-side in JavaScript and not require a server call at all, also making it truly "real-time".
And so, here is my solution, using JavaScript (jQuery) without relying on server calls. This may not be suitable for your current implementation, but just in case it is, this might be helpful.
JSFiddle:
http://jsfiddle.net/VKfrw/1/
JavaScript:
function hasWhiteSpaceOrEmpty(s)
{
return s == "" || s.indexOf(' ') >= 0;
}
function validateInput()
{
var inputVal = $("#myInput").val();
if(hasWhiteSpaceOrEmpty(inputVal))
{
//This has whitespace or is empty, disable the button
$("#add").attr("disabled", "disabled");
}
else
{
//not empty or whitespace
$("#add").removeAttr("disabled");
}
}
$(document).ready(function() {
$("#myInput").keyup(validateInput);
});
HTML:
<!-- give this guy an ID -->
<input id="myInput" name="item" type="text" size="25" autofocus="autofocus" />
This implementation uses jQuery.