It seems that when the XtraGrid creates a sub view, it ignores the DetailHeight of the parent view, in favor of the DetailHeight on the child view. Setting the view's DetailHeight as it is registered corrected the problem.
Private Sub grdMaster_ViewRegistered(sender As System.Object, e As DevExpress.XtraGrid.ViewOperationEventArgs) Handles grdMaster.ViewRegistered
Try
Select Case e.View.GetViewCaption()
Case "parent_child"
Dim view As Grid.GridView = e.View
view.DetailHeight = 10000
End Select
Catch ex As Exception
'handle error.
End Try
End Sub
Thank you all for your assistance and help.