You would be best to consider the PHP script as a one-off thing. It does what it is asked to, then terminates. Nothing is preserved.
However, if you NEED to preserve something to pass back with an AJAX call, you can do it by including:
<INPUT type='hidden' id='my_variable' value='my_value'>
This can be referenced by the javascript that calls your AJAX PHP page and thus be passed back.
For what you require, as @AlexP said, you can simply change the visibility of each tab content area with:
<SPAN onclick='toggle(this.id)' id='tab_1'>Tab Name</SPAN>
or similar. Your JS function might include something like:
for(n=1;n<=numberOfTabs;n++)
{
document.getElementById("div_"+n).style.display="none";
}
document.getElementById("div_"+passedid).style.display="block";
though there are other ways of doing it.
Perhaps what you REALLY want to do is save the entered data into a database field frequently (or even continuously).