Add a HiddenField to your page. then on updateCallBackReason() function call update document.getElementById('<%=dropCallbackReason.ClientID%>').selectedIndex to the hidden field. On form load you can set the dropCallbackReason selected index from hiddenfield.
Otherwise you can use updatepanel for implement this logic. Use updatepanel, hiddenfield, javascript __DoPostBack() call also. for detais search on google. then on updatepanel set the trigger as first dropdown.