i was having the exact same problem a while ago. images would not load into some of the asides in iBooks, but would in others.
on iPad1 running the last version of iBooks that it supported, i was able to display the images by inserting them via CSS as a background url of a div with set dimensions inside of the aside, but only with inline styles. i'm not attaching the code because it should never actually be used.
iPad3 with a more recent version of iBooks continued to be buggy, and not display the background images periodically, but the workaround was so ugly that i abandoned it anyway. i believe this is a bug in iBooks.