You can possibly use the plugin's .valid()
method.
Replace this...
if (!valid) {
with this...
if !($("#form1").valid()) {
Then since the plugin is checking validity, you can get rid of all this...
var valid = true;
if (tab == 0 && ($('#txbYPSchool').val() == "" || $('#txbYPSubjectDesc').val() == "")) {
valid = false;
};