After the second day of digging in i came to a solution. As the Open Graph Api mentions, the keyword is tagging BUT, the META tags mentioned in the documentation didn't work for me in any way. I came up to use an Page ID for the place field and used the friends ID as value for the tags field. Once the friend is tagged with the post, he will see the same post on his own timeline. Here's a snippet:
facebook.api('/me/feed', 'POST', {
'message' : userdata.name + ' hat für ' + frienddata.name + ' einen ' + $('span.buggyname').html() + '...',
'picture' : 'some picture URL',
'link' : 'URL to see game result',
'name' : 'our awesome game',
'place' : 'pageid of customer',
'tags' : frienddata.id
}, function(response){
console.log(response);
});