I would guess that AOL is using the RATS-Dyna
blacklist and rejected your messages because you are on that list.
You are probably on the list because your IP address resolves backwards to dd10.kasserver.com
, which looks like a "generic_addressing_style.upstream_provider.com" that RATS-Dyna blocks.
To solve that, you need to contact your provider and see if they can give you a PTR record to point the address to a "real"-looking name. Probably just changing it from dd...
to something else more complex will help.
Another possible way to get on the RATS-Dyna list is if you send mail too fast. You need to be careful not to look like a spam bot.
How fast is too fast?
Short answer: There is no hard number. You might have to experiment.
Long answer: Here are some mail policies from several hosting companies which might give you an idea. However, note how large the range is:
- HostGator - 500/hr
- Gmail - No hard limit over time, but does limit addressees per-message. Note that Gmail also has a very good Guide for Bulk Message Sending which might help you keep your messages out of spam folders.
- Google Apps - varies
- MDD Hosting - 200/hr
- Many More
Note that some services like Amazon Simple Email Service can theoretically send much faster than the services listed above. That is because Amazon puts a lot of effort into maintaining the reputation of their servers and the receiving mail servers "know" that. Your basic web-hosting-with-email just isn't on the same level, so take it easy.
Open-source mailing list software Dada Mail defaults to sending a single message every 8 seconds, for a total of 450 messages/hour.