So, there were more problems, if someone will have similar unanswered thing :
1) maybe maiorano84's answer helped because i changed my line as he said (i can not prove it).
2) i added all codes in the footer : i called first the jquery .js file, then the preloader .js file and after the code.
3) then, it started to work but never finished preloading and i had a "TypeError: jQuery.easing[jQuery.easing.def] is not a function" error. As far as i understood from some forums (and already had some similar problem before), WordPress comes already with jquery files and cause conflict with jquery of other plugins, i simply deleted the /wp-includes/js/jquery/ folder and i use my own jquery files... Remark : if you do not want to delete the folder, you can still try to change the l'occurence "$" or "jQuery" to "jq" (not using the same what WP default jquery uses).