This seems like a classic XY problem (i.e. trying to solve the attempted solution instead of the actual problem).
If I understand your constraints correctly, the underlying issue is that you do not wish to have direct connections to your server. This is currently the model we're using with Firebase and I can think of two simple patterns to accomplish this.
1) Store the data in an non-guessable path
Create a UUID or GID or, assuming we're not talking bank level security here, just a plain Firebase ID ( firebaseRef.push().name() ). Then have the server and client communicate via this path.
This avoids the need for security rules since the URLs are unguessable, or close enough to it, in the case of the Firebase ID, for normal uses.
Client example:
var fb = new Firebase(MY_INSTANCE_URL+'/connect');
var uniquePath = fb.push();
var myId = uniquePath.name();
// send a message to the server
uniquePath.push('hello world');
From the server, simply monitor connect
, each one that connects is a new client:
var fb = new Firebase(MY_INSTANCE_URL+'/connect');
fb.on('child_added', newClientConnected);
function newClientConnected(snapshot) {
snapshot.ref().on('child_added', function(ss) {
// when the client sends me a message, log it and then return "goodbye"
console.log('new message', ss.val());
ss.ref().set('goodbye');
});
};
In your security rules:
{
"rules": {
// read/write are false by default
"connect": {
// contents cannot be listed, no way to find out ids other than guessing
"$client": {
".read": true,
".write": true
}
}
}
}
2) Use Firebase authentication
Instead of expending so much effort to avoid authentication, just use a third party service, like Firebase's built-in auth, or Singly (which supports Firebase). This is the best of both worlds, and the model I use for most cases.
Your client can authenticate directly with one of these services, never touching your server, and then authenticate to Firebase with the token, allowing security rules to take effect.