Each library compiled against the C++ runtime is calling _DllMainCRTStartup when it's loaded. _DllMainCRTStartup calls _CRT_INIT, which initializes the C/C++ run-time library and invokes C++ constructors on static, non-local variables.
The PE format contains an optional header that has a slot called 'addressofentrypoint', this slot calls a function that will call _DllMainCRTStartup which fires the initialization chain.
after _DllMainCRTStartup finishes the initialization phase it will call your own implemented DllMain() function.