From the MFC Sources [afxtoolbareditboxbutton.cpp], it looks like the 'Paste()' function of the underlying CMFCToolBarEditCtrl
is called directly during Ctrl-V, the 'Paste()' member function just sends WM_PASTE
to the edit window.
Could do try making a handler for WM_PASTE
?
This SO Answer has an example of how to do this.