You can append the video link after the page is loaded via jQuery.
<iframe id="vimeo_frame" src="#" width="500" height="320" frameborder="0" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe>
<script>
jQuery(window).load(function()
{
var vimeo_frame = jQuery('#vimeo_frame'),
vimeo_src = 'player.vimeo.com/video/82633004?title=0&byline=0&portrait=0&autoplay=1';
setTimeout(function()
{
vimeo_frame.attr('src', vimeo_src);
}, 2000);
}
</script>
Don't forget to include jQuery ;-)