If you don't want to repeat the duplicate rows, following should work:
mysql> select a.* from tbl_so_q23676640 a
-> join tbl_so_q23676640 b
-> on a.v1 = b.v2 and a.v2 = b.v1
-> where a.n=b.n
-> group by a.n, a.v1, a.v2
-> ;
+------+------+------+
| n | v1 | v2 |
+------+------+------+
| 1 | a | b |
| 1 | b | a |
| 4 | a | b |
| 4 | b | a |
+------+------+------+
4 rows in set (0.00 sec)