Adding a 2012 R2 server to a 2008 R2 SharePoint 2010 farm

Question

Having an issue where configuration is looking for SharePoint 2010 updates/patches that it sees on other servers in the farm. What is the best way to get all the updates/patches that are missing when the automatic update won't pull them?

Ultimate goal will be to have the following configuration:

WFE1-Server2008 WFE2-Server2008 WFE3-Server2012 (this is the new server i'm trying to add to the farm) APP1-Server2008

UPDATE W/MISSING PATCHES:

Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 Installed Across Server Farm Microsoft Word Server

Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3127950) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7176.5000)
Missing on WFE1 Missing on WAPPS1 Missing on WFE2 Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3118377) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7174.5001)
Missing Locally Microsoft Excel Services Components

Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3118381) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7176.5000)
Missing on WFE1 Missing on WAPPS1 Missing on WFE2 Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3115119) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7173.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Office Server Proof (English) 2010

Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3055040) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7151.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft SharePoint Portal

Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3055040) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7155.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft SharePoint Portal English Language Pack

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7113.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Slide Library

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7109.5000)
Missing Locally PerformancePoint Services for SharePoint

Update for 2010 Microsoft Business Productivity Servers (KB2880521) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7160.5000)
Missing Locally PerformancePoint Services in SharePoint 1033 Language Pack

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7109.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Visio Services Web Front End Components

Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3055040) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7149.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Excel Services English Language Pack

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7109.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Access Services Server

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7113.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Access Services English Language Pack

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7109.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Web Analytics Web Front End Components

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7124.5000)
Missing Locally Microsoft Web Analytics English Language Pack

Hotfix for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB2883103) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7109.5000)
Missing Locally

UPDATE: (after applying august cu as mentioned below)

Looks like that took care of most of them. Thanks to you both for that idea. I'm still seeing the following and when I try to manually download and install the patches listed as missing I get the message that they're already installed.

Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 Installed Across Server Farm Microsoft Word Server

Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3127950) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7176.5000)
Missing on WFE1 Missing on WAPPS1 Missing on WFE2 Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3118377) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7174.5001)
Missing Locally Microsoft Excel Services Components

Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3118381) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7176.5000)
Missing on WFE1 Missing on WAPPS1 Missing on WFE2 Security Update for Microsoft SharePoint Server 2010 (KB3115119) 64-Bit Edition (14.0.7173.5000)
Missing Locally

Answer 1

By looking at the latest build numbers on your list, it looks like you are missing the August 2015 CU package. You can find the list of Build Numbers at SharePoint Server build numbers.

You'll have to install that package to your new server to add the server to the farm. You must have SP2 installed to install the package, so if your installation of SharePoint on the new server did not include SP2, make sure to install it first.