Now before the function finishes, a script write would put the actor object in a global lua reference to be accessed later.
That right there is where your problem is coming from. If you want Lua code to own the object (that is, preserve the existence of this object), then you need to use Luabind mechanics to tell Luabind that you want to do that. Otherwise, if you pass a pointer to some Lua function, Luabind will assume that the function will not be trying to gain ownership of it.
If you want ownership to be shared between Lua and Luabind, then you should wrap your objects in a boost::shared_ptr
, and use Luabind's smart pointer mechanisms to do this.
You could also simply segregate your scripts better. If you have some script that operates on a particular actor, then that script and any functions it contains should be destroyed (ie: lose all references to it) along with the object. This requires proper coding discipline on the C++ side. It will also require that you use Lua environments to properly encapsulate each instance of a script, so that they can't sneak things out via globals. Lastly, you will need to have C++ maintain total control over when scripts are called and when they aren't.
Otherwise, ownership is something your scripters are simply going to have to know about and be careful of. They can't treat C++ parameters like any old Lua value.
If exercising disciplined programming practice is not possible or practical for you, then you will simply have to not pass Lua the actual C++ object. Instead, you need to pass Lua some proxy object, which is a reference to the original. boost::weak_ptr is a good example of such an object (though you wouldn't pass it exactly to Lua). The proxy would forward calls to the actual object. If the object has been deleted, the proxy would detect this and fail or do nothing or whatever.