Assuming that what I ask in my previous comment is true, (only null or a given value for REF1 and REF2 for each NAME, DRCT pair), this seems to work:
select NAME, M_REF1, M_REF2, DRCT
from (
select A.NAME, coalesce(A.REF1, B.REF1) m_REF1,
coalesce(A.REF2, B.REF2) m_REF2, A.REF1 A_REF1, B.REF1 B_REF1,
A.REF2 A_REF2, B.REF2 B_REF2, A.DRCT
from Table1 A JOIN Table1 B on A.NAME = B.NAME AND A.DRCT = B.DRCT)
WHERE A_REF1 = m_REF1 AND B_REF2 = m_REF2
UNION
select A.NAME, A.REF1, A.REF2, A.DRCT
FROM Table1 A JOIN
(select NAME, DRCT, COUNT(*)
from Table1
group by NAME, DRCT
HAVING COUNT(*) = 1) B ON A.NAME = B.NAME AND A.DRCT = B.DRCT;
The union is used because the rows with only one record are not included in the first SELECT.
But this is somewhat simpler, and works too:
select A.NAME, coalesce(A.REF1, B.REF1) M_REF1, coalesce(A.REF2,B.REF2) M_REF2,A.DRCT
from Table1 A LEFT OUTER JOIN Table1 B ON A.DRCT = B.DRCT AND A.NAME = B.NAME
WHERE NVL2(A.REF1,0,1) = 1 AND NVL2(B.REF1,0,1) =0
AND NVL2(A.REF2,0,1) = 0 AND NVL2(B.REF2,0,1) = 1
UNION
select A.NAME, A.REF1, A.REF2, A.DRCT
FROM Table1 A JOIN
(select NAME, DRCT, COUNT(*)
from Table1
group by NAME, DRCT
HAVING COUNT(*) = 1) B ON A.NAME = B.NAME AND A.DRCT = B.DRCT;