Most databases have tables that describe the contents of the databases. If you are using toad, then I might surmise that you are using Oracle.
If so, you can use:
select *
from syscolumns
where columnname = <whatever you are looking for>
And then lookup the referenceid
in systables
.
In many other databases, you can use:
select *
from INFORMATION_SCHEMA.columns
where column_name = <whatever you are looking for>