I think the below macro matches your requirements. Here we are working on the 3rd letter of the month, since it is unique for most of the months (except Jan/Jun, March/April), hence easier for comparison.
#define MONTH (\
__DATE__ [2] == 'n' ? (__DATE__ [1] == 'a' ? 1 : 6) \
: __DATE__ [2] == 'b' ? 2 \
: __DATE__ [2] == 'r' ? (__DATE__ [0] == 'M' ? 3 : 4) \
: __DATE__ [2] == 'y' ? 5 \
: __DATE__ [2] == 'l' ? 7 \
: __DATE__ [2] == 'g' ? 8 \
: __DATE__ [2] == 'p' ? 9 \
: __DATE__ [2] == 't' ? 10 \
: __DATE__ [2] == 'v' ? 11 \
: 12)