Problem resolved once I've set all character_set_...
MySQL DB variables to utf8mb4.
That probably means that newer version of jetty (8+) treat JDBC connection different than Tomcat or than older version, because the exact connection string, beans definition & DB was used at all cases.
Until now, character_set_...
params were set to utf8 with specific columns defined as utf8mb4, that used to be enough.
Hopes that saves anyone else the day I was stuck on it.