Seems this is a HD44780 compatible Controller.
Note that every 4x20 Display is a 2x40 in real which is cutted in the middle. This can be implemented with one Display Controller, but the Display need several Drivers. Get an eyeful of this:
nonetheless you can interface the Display in 4-Bit Mode.
Here is a sample how to Interface the 4x20 in Bit Mode (note that Pin15 (LED+) and Pin16 (LED-) are missing, thats only the backlight pins). Dont forget to connect Pin5 (R/W) to GND.
A very good lib to interfacing a HD44780 4x20 is written by Peter Fleury: http://homepage.hispeed.ch/peterfleury/avr-software.html#libs in section "LCD library for HD44870 based LCD's" give it a try