Not joining a thread is like not delete
ing all memory you new
. It can be harmless, or it could be a bad habit.
A thread you have not synchronized with is in an unknown state of execution. If it is a file writing thread, it could be half way through writing a file and then the app finishes. If it is a network communications thread, it could be half way through a handshake.
The downside to joining every thread is if one of them has gotten into a bad state and has blocked, your app can hang.
In general you should try to send a message to your outstanding threads to tell them to exit and clean up. Then you should wait a modest amount of time for them to finish or otherwise respond that they are good to die, and then shut down the app. Now prior to this you should signify your program is no longer open for business -- shit down GUI windows, respond to requests from other processes that you are shutting down, etc -- so if this takes longer than anticipated the user is not bothered. Finally if things go imperfectly -- if threads refuse to respond to your request that they shut down and you give up on them -- then you should log errors as well, so you can fix what may be a symptom of a bigger problem.
The last time a worker thread unexpectedly hung I initially thought was a problem with a network outage and a bug in the timeout code. Upon deeper inspection it was because one of the objects in use was delete
d prior to the shutdown synchronization: the undefined behaviour that resulted just looked like a hang in my reproduction cases. Had we not carefully joined, that bug would have been harder to track down (now, the right thing to do would have been to use a shared resource that we could not delete: but mistakes happen).