According to this page on the IANA's site, ANSI_X3.110-1983
is also known as:
iso-ir-99
CSA_T500-1983
NAPLPS
csISO99NAPLPS
Of those, only the name NAPLPS seems interesting or informative. If you can, consider getting in touch with the people sending those mails. If they're really using Prodigy in this day and age, I'd be amazed.
The IANA site also has a pointer to RFC 1345, which contains a description of the bytes and the characters that they map to. Compared to ISO-8859-1, the control characters are the same, as are most of the punctuation, all of the numbers and letters, and most of the remaining characters in the first 7 bits.
You could possibly use the guide in the RFC to write a tool to map the characters over, if someone hasn't written a tool for it already. To be honest, it may be easier to simply ignore the whines about the weird character set given that the character mapping is close enough to what is expected anyway...