Thanks @Charleh for the hint (I really had no clue about it) I found a good answer here: https://stackoverflow.com/a/18980558/187650
Also I changed the Fluent:GalleryItem with a Button:
<Fluent:DropDownButton x:Name="aaaa"
Header="Farm"
LargeIcon="..\..\Resources\unicorn48.png">
<Fluent:Gallery ItemsSource="{Binding AllUnicorns}">
<Fluent:Gallery.ItemTemplate>
<DataTemplate>
<Button Content="{Binding UnicornFoobar}"
cal:Message.Attach="[Event Click] = [Action ShowUnicorn($dataContext)]"
cal:Action.TargetWithoutContext="{Binding DataContext, ElementName=aaaa}" />
</DataTemplate>
</Fluent:Gallery.ItemTemplate>
</Fluent:Gallery>