Answer 1: Logging a bug with apple can be done via the iOS Dev center (There's a link on the bottom of the page). You can also ask for technical support. Click on the "Developer Support Center" button, then go to "Technical Support (TSI)" (Please note you only have a limited amount that you're allowed to use per year, before you have to buy more).
Answer 2: I think that having two buttons would be a very bad User Interface decision. Apple may reject it because of that (but you never know). I would get the bug report in, and go from there.
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