You are probably trying to run the ctags that comes with XCode.
To use the actual ctags you are looking for:
1) If you haven't installed brew already install it -> http://brew.sh/
2) If you haven't already installed the ctags you are actually looking for:
brew install ctags
3) Then try running this ctags as: /usr/local/bin/ctags
instead of just writing ctags
Incase you can't find ctags in the directory I wrote, try running it like this ->
`brew --prefix`/bin/ctags
(yes with the quotes)