Here you go:
SELECT c1.id
FROM call_charges c1
LEFT JOIN call_charges c2
ON c1.id = c2.retry_id AND c2.is_paid = 1
WHERE c1.transaction_bid IS NOT NULL
AND c1.is_paid = 0
AND c2.id IS NULL
AND c1.retry_id IS NULL
Working Fiddle: http://sqlfiddle.com/#!2/29549/13
c2.id
could be null because a LEFT JOIN
has been used. When c1.id
does not match c2.retry_id
then c2.id
will be NULL.