You don't need to reload the content, you need to remove the deleted item from the DOM. Without more info about your HTML, I can't be very specific.
function delCatItem(catitem){
var theitem = catitem;
$.ajax({
url: "movie/deleteitem/",
type: "POST",
data: { "movieid" : catitem },
dataType: "html",
success: function(){
var selector = '#item_'+catitem;
$(selector).parents('tr').remove();
}
});
}