RE: Jetty
Short Answer: Yes
Long Answer: Yes, of course...many companies use jetty in production, either in its distribution form or embedded into their applications. In fact, I just updated this jetty powered page on the eclipse site.
http://www.eclipse.org/jetty/powered/
The about page with some additional info:
http://www.eclipse.org/jetty/about.php
and finally a 'Why Choose Jetty?' link: